CHURCH IMPROVEMENT: BUILDING A CHURCH THATHONORS GOD AND LOVES PEOPLE THROUGH
SMALL GROUPS

2 Timothy 2:22

INTRODUCTION

I’m going to do something this morning that I very rarely do.  In fact, this may be only the second time I’ve done this since we became a church 4 years ago.  I’m going to deliver a sermon that is not based upon just one text of Scripture but attempts to build an argument from a number of different passages.  I will be referring to about 10 different places in the NT.  We are in the second week of a four week series entitled, “Church Improvement: Building a Church that Honors God and Loves People.”  This morning we are going to consider the necessity of being involved in personal, face-to-face relationships with other Christians every week in order to make it safely to heaven.

Some of you may remember my telling you about my encounter with a bully when I was 13 years old.  It was the summer before I went to high school.  I was attending a summer school class about Shakespeare.  One day as I walked down the cool, dimly lit hallway of the Middle School where the class was being held two boys I had never seen before confronted me and the friend I was with.  One of the boys looked me in the eye and said, “You and I are going to fight.”  I was confused and asked him what he meant.  He said, “You and I are going to fight right now.”  He and his friend grabbed my arms and led me up the stairs to the landing between the two floors.  He said that we would box and that the fight would be over when blood was drawn.  So I half-heartedly put up my hands.  He punched me in the mouth and I could taste blood and so I opened my mouth and pulled out my lip and said, “I’m bleeding, so I guess the fight is over.”  I walked home with my friend, shaking all the way.

A few days later I was at the city swimming pool when the same boy yelled at me through the chain link fence and challenged me, in front of all my friends to step out of the pool and to fight him.  I was numb with fright and could think of no way to not fight this boy.  I went into the boys’ locker room, trembling with fright and changed my cloths.  I remember an older boy, one of the workers at the pool telling me not to box him but to wrestle him because I was heavier than him.  I had no idea what to do.  His friends came and got me and took me out in front of the pool.  The pool emptied out and all the kids stood on the hill looking down at the two of us standing in the middle of his friends.  All I could do was keep backing up while he kept swinging at me.  I think he landed a couple of punches.  Eventually the “fight” was over and I rode my bike home with a couple of my friends while sobbing uncontrollably.

I didn’t go swimming any more that summer.  In fact, I tried not to go anywhere.  If I was going somewhere I always made sure that I had several friends with me.  I never went anywhere alone.  In fact, I tried to never be alone.  My friends were very important to me.  They were my protection.  I knew that if that kid ever caught me by myself I would be history.

I’m not sure how you think about the Christian life, but it is a fight, a war.  We are always under attack or under the threat of attack.  Just like I could never be sure when and where my nemesis would strike next, so we are always exposed to the attacks of our enemies.  The war we are in is the war of faith.  It’s a war for my mind, “What will I think, about God, Christ, sin, salvation, heaven, hell, love, family, church, work, etc?”  It’s a war for my heart, “Who or what will I love, God or a career, Christ or my hobby, God’s word or my favorite novel, etc.?”  It’s a war for my will, “What must I do to find happiness, obey God’s commands or go on vacation, love my neighbor or watch TV, love my wife or go hunting?

Paul, the chief representative for Christianity in the first 40 years after Jesus ascended to heaven knew that the Christian life is war.  Several times in his letters to his young apprentice Timothy, he describes the Christian life as warfare.  Look with me at I Tim. 1:18-20 (p. 839) and II Tim. 4:6-8 (p. 843).  Paul uses the metaphor of war to help Timothy maintain his perspective.    Notice what he commands Timothy in II Tim 2:22, “Now flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, peace and love along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.”  Part of the solution that Paul recommends for continuing to fight the fight is to pursue godliness with men and women who are in the battle with you.  The Christian life is not simply avoiding worldly pleasure it is pursuing, with all your might, a better pleasure, godliness.  In the same way that I could not be safe without my friends with me that summer so to you will not make it safely to heaven without being in the company of others who “call on the Lord from a pure heart.”

MAIN POINT

The fight of faith requires I join the army if I expect to win the war because…

  • My foes are fierce, relentless and powerful

Who are the enemies we are fighting?  Who or what is it that is aiming at the destruction of our faith? 

1.      Gal. 5: 16-17 (p. 826) & Heb. 3: 12-13 (847):  The default setting in our lives is to prefer sin to Christ.  If we do nothing we will believe the promises of sin and develop a hard, unbelieving heart towards God.  In almost thirty years of talking with people about the condition of their spiritual life I have never had anyone say to me, “I don’t understand myself.  I cannot stop reading God’s word, praying and loving others.  I have to find someway to stop denying myself and loving people.”

2.      I John 2: 14-15 (p. 862)& 5: 3-5 & 19:  A world system that is opposed to God and his ways.  We live in a world that is continually telling us that we can be happy without God.  Every commercial you have ever seen has said this to you.  Our friends, our families, our coworkers, our neighbors communicate to us by how they live and what they say, that happiness can be found without Christ. 

3.      I Peter 5:8-9 (859) & John 8: 42-44 (p.758)  & 1 Timothy 4: 1-4 (p. 840):  Satan, his demons and the false teaching and persecution that they inspire

The U.S. does not seem to be a place that is at war.  For this reason, the U.S. is a dangerous place to live.  It is so easy for us to become comfortable in our affluence and polite Christian company and forget that we are at war.  When America was at war in WWII, everyone knew it and lived differently.  The progress of the war was the main topic of conversation.  Prayers for loved ones who were on the front lines were daily offered.  There was rationing of gasoline and other resources that could be used by the troops.  Those at home lived differently because they too were in the war, though not on the front lines.  Like America in WWII we who belong to Christ’s church are in a war to maintain faith and arrive safely in heaven.

Just as certainly as Nazi Germany and imperialist Japan sought to destroy the U.S. and its allies, so Satan seeks to destroy Christ’s church.  Satan, through the world of men, which is opposed to God, seeks to influence our sinful nature to destroy our confidence that to have Christ is to have everything.  Our enemies are bent on destroying our faith, our love for God and His ways.  The evil bents within me are continually being stimulated by the world’s thinking and Satan’s lies to seek to find life and satisfaction in other things, in ways of living that are contrary to God’s ways.

Our real problems are not primarily psychological, but rather problems of faith.  It is our faith that is continually under assault.  By this I don’t mean primarily the intellectual doubts that sometimes arise in our mind, though creating doubt is part of the strategy of our enemies.  Faith is being satisfied with all that God promises to be for me in Jesus.  It is being absolutely persuaded that to know and love and obey Christ is the most certain way to happiness.  It is to know that all other promises for joy are but a sham and a deception.  My biggest problem and your biggest problem is your natural propensity to believe the lies of Satan and the world that you can be happy without God.  Every day we are under attack by our enemies who are seeking to destroy our faith.

My faith is continually under assault by the world, my own sinful desires and Satan himself, so I need to join the army of God’s people.  But I also need to join the army of God’s people because…..

III am weak and easily overcome

Are you ever amazed at how excited you are to go shopping or watch a sporting event or work at your hobby but how little excitement you feel at the prospect of coming to church?  Really, when you stop and think about it, it doesn’t make a lot of sense.  Coming to church is a response to the great facts of the gospel of Christ.  The God who made the world and who holds it together and who is perfectly just and who has every right to kill me and throw me into hell has killed his Son in my place and through him given me a living faith and a certain hope of heaven.  There is nothing in the whole universe as astounding as that sentence I just spoke.  Yet our hearts don’t thrill to it.

Are you ever amazed at how easily you lie or get angry or give in to lust for food or sex or sleep or whatever and how difficult it is to love people, to worship God or to restrain yourself from doing evil?  Are you ever appalled at how proud you feel after or even while you are doing a kind act?  Do you ever feel like the psalmist when he said, “For troubles without number surround me; my sins have overtaken me, and I cannot see.  They are more than the hairs of my head, and my heart fails within me.”

There is an enormous tension in the Christian life.  On one hand, Christ has saved me from my sins.  Not simply from the penalty of my sins, but from the rule of sin in my life.  Prior to becoming a Christian, everything I did was sin because nothing I did was from a heart of faith in Christ and for the glory of God.  But when I became a Christian, I was given a new heart, new motivations and new loves.  Listen to how the NT describes this in these three places:

1.      Romans 8: 12-14 (p. 800)

2.      Titus 2:11-14 (p. 844)

3.      1 John 3:9 (p. 863)

The evidence that I belong to Christ is that I am in a fight against sin.  I want to do what God wants me to do.  I love to trust and obey Christ.  I hate sinning.  Pleasing him is the great yearning of my life. The certain mark that I belong to Christ is that I have these new yearnings that yield new actions.  Whereas before I found no joy in pursuing God and all my joy in pursuing my own agenda, now I hate it when I seek to fill my life apart from God.  I find joy in knowing and obeying Him.  But, because I still live on this fallen planet and still live in this fallen humanity, I still sin.  Listen to this description of the struggle that the Christian experiences in Romans 7.

·        Rom 7: 14-25 (p. 800)

·        Psalm 38:1-4 & 17-18 (p. 399)

·        I John 1: 8-10 (p. 862)

I have a good friend named Bill.  He stands about 6’3” and is a superb athlete.  He is excellent at golf, basketball, baseball and tennis. He is a natural leader.  Men love to hang around with Bill.  Bill is the epitome of strength.  Currently he is the chaplain for the Colorado Rockies baseball team and the Denver Broncos.  I will never forget the first time I met Bill.  I was working with Campus Crusade for Christ and I was in charge of the team of staff assigned to share the gospel with students at UW-LaCrosse.  Bill was assigned to serve on my team and I met him the summer he found out that he would be joining us in LaCrosse.  I asked him why it was that he had joined the staff of CCC.  Most people when asked that question would have said, “Because I want to help reach lost students for Christ.”  Not Bill, he said, “I need to be with people who love Christ because I know that if I went out in the world right now I wouldn’t make it as a Christian.”  At the time, I thought Bill was rather immature for answering like that.  However, as I’ve gotten older I’ve come to see the wisdom in that answer.  Bill knew he was weak and that it wouldn’t take much for sin and the world and the devil to do him in.

Do you view yourself as weak, vulnerable and susceptible to doing all manner of evil?  Do you feel how precarious is your condition spiritually?  You will not survive the onslaught of your sin, the world and the devil by yourself.  You need fellow soldiers in the fight of faith to make it safely to your heavenly home.

I have fierce enemies and I am easily overcome by them, therefore I need to be connected to God’s army if I am going to make it to heaven and because…

III. God supplies His strength through the encouragement of faithful comrades

When do we most need encouragement?  We are most in need of encouragement when we are in danger of quitting, of turning aside from a course of action.  When the course is tougher or longer than we had anticipated is when we most need help to keep going.  A number of years ago I ran a half marathon, that’s 13.1 miles.  The only reason I was able to train for it and to finish it was because a good friend was committed to running it with me.  Regularly we would need to urge each other to do the training runs in bad weather and when we just didn’t feel like going.  In the race itself I would have walked the last mile if it wasn’t for Paul running next to me and telling me I couldn’t walk, that we were almost there and needed to keep going.

The Greek word that means, “to encourage” is used over 100 times in the NT.  It is translated with a number of different English words: encourage, comfort, urge, appeal, exhort are the main ones.  In the book of 1 Thess. it is used 8 times.  Please turn with me to this book so you can see how it is used (p. 835).

What I want you to notice is the goal and the means of encouragement in this book.  Paul spent a month with these people and then was driven out of town by influential unbelievers who did not like what Paul was saying.  These unbelievers continued to persecute the new believers in the town.

Ø      1 Thess. 2:11-12  Paul encouraged them.  Notice that encouragement is something a father does and its goal is so people will live a life worthy of God.

Ø      1 Thess. 3:1-5 Paul sent Timothy to encourage them.  Timothy’s encouragement was for the purpose of strengthening their faith.  Notice v. 5, Paul sees that Satan may have deceived them.  Without Timothy’s encouragement they won’t make it to heaven.  Let me just pause here to make a comment about the relationship between the security of the Christian and the necessity of persevering.  If you’ll look back at 1:4 Paul makes a very strong statement about his certainty that these men and women have been born again of God’s Spirit.  He knows that God chose them and gave them life because of how they responded to the gospel and to the persecution that came because of the gospel.  However, Paul also knows that the only saving faith is a persevering faith.  The only people who will make it to heaven are those who believe the promises of God to the end of their lives.  Paul also knows that God uses means to maintain faith.  The way God works in our lives is not some mystical, magical thing.  Rather, God gives us faith and strengthens our faith through a variety of means.  One of those means is the encouragement of other Christians.  True Christians will not be deceived by Satan because true believers always seek to place themselves under the teaching of God’s word and welcome the encouragement of other Christians.

Ø      1 Thess. 3:7 In turn, when Paul heard that they were continuing to trust Christ in spite of their trials, he was encouraged to persevere in his trials.  If they can persist so can I.  I can’t tell you how often I have said that to myself, especially in the last year.  There is enormous power when you see a person live by faith in the midst of great suffering.  I have been so helped by thinking about John Patton, the missionary to the people of New Hebrides whose wife and infant son died one year after arriving on the island.  His ongoing faith and faithfulness have encouraged me to press on.  The story of Steve Saint, the son of the martyred missionary, Nate Saint, whose 22-year-old daughter, the night she returned from a yearlong missions trip suddenly and unexpectedly died is a source of encouragement.  It’s not only these “big” stories of persevering faith that help me but also just being with Christians who are beset by all the same troubles I am beset with and then to see them faithfully follow Christ is a great encouragement to my own faith.

Ø      1 Thess. 4:18  They are to tell each other about the coming of Christ in order to encourage each other

Ø      1 Thess. 5:11  They are to “encourage each other” because Jesus is coming back to save us

When we encourage others we are aiming at building their faith so they will live lives of glad obedience to God.  Encouragement isn’t simply offering emotional support to someone who is depressed.  It may include that but it is always most concerned that the other person trusts God more and lives a life that reflects that trust.  Encouragement is God centered, Scripture saturated conversation.  It takes serious the pressures that a person faces that are causing them to want to quit but it doesn’t lament those conditions as much as it points the person to Christ and his amazing salvation.  Encouragement:

Ø      Comes out of a heart of compassion, like a dad

Ø      Is very passionate, it cares whether or not the other person responds

Ø      Is aimed at getting the other person to pursue Christ more, to obey God more fervently

Ø      You cannot encourage someone if you don’t believe the best thing for him is to do what you are encouraging him to do.  You must be in the process of experiencing these things yourself.

Ø      Those who encourage are encouraged in turn by the perseverance of those they encourage

When you are involved in encouraging another person you are taking serious the ferocity of our enemies and the weakness of humans to trust Christ.  Any person sitting in this room could forsake Christ and bring great harm to themselves and those they love.  This is what Paul is saying in 1 Thess. 3:5.  He fears that the devil, through the persecution that he has inspired, may have persuaded these men and women to abandon Christ.  Satan, he fears, may have persuaded them that if being a Christian means suffering like this, then it’s better to not be a Christian.  Paul sees the work of Timothy in strengthening this church in their faith as absolutely essential to their persevering in faith.

It is God’s intention and plan that Christians, through the work of encouragement, restore those who have fallen, preserve one another from falling and move one another forward in a glad obedience to God.  Through our words and our work we are to aim at counteracting and overcoming the work of Satan, the world, and sin in the lives of other Christians.

Now, the question is, when you get together with other believers, is this the goal of your meeting?  Do you ever intentionally meet with other Christians for the purpose of encouraging one another’s faith?  This is a difficult thing to do, but if you are going to make it to heaven, it is absolutely essential.  We need to give each other permission to talk about Christ and the things we are struggling with and the ways we are overcoming sin.  We need to develop the discipline of “spiritual conversation”.  Not just my job as the pastor.

In January of 1995, I sinned in a very public way.  I was at a basketball game that my two oldest sons were playing in and I became very angry and verbally abusive of the refs and the other team.  I was out of control.  My sons played for a Christian high school and we were playing a public high school in their gym.  When I left the gym, I was numb with the wickedness I had just engaged in.  I was dismayed with my own evil.  I didn’t know what to do.  I had humiliated my wife, my sons, the parents of the other players and their school.  But mostly I was distraught at how my angry display had dishonored Christ.  I was an elder in our church and I went to my fellow elders and confessed my great sin to them and asked them what I should do.  I was sure that I was not a Christian.  They helped me to deal with God and then they helped me to put together a plan to make sure that never happened again.  Before the next basketball game I called together the parents of all the other players and many of the other fans of the school and apologized to them and asked their forgiveness.  Then I told them that I wanted to spend time before every game praying for ourselves that we would honor Christ in our cheering and that our sons would honor Christ in how they played the game.  During the next two seasons a group of us met before every game to pray together that we would believe the promises of God more than the promise of fair referees or winning the game.  The joy that we had in those years was great because we never got angry again.  We enthusiastically cheered for our boys but we did not complain at bad calls or criticize the other team.  We kept our attention on cheering.  This is what is supposed to happen when we are engaged in fighting the fight of faith with one another.  My fellow elders helped me and then we Christian parents helped one another.  You will not be successful in fighting against sin and for faith without the regular encouragement of other believers.

 

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