SIN & GRACE: A ONE-SIDED CONTEST
GRACES PRODUCES THE OBEDIENCE OF FAITH
GENESIS 27:41-28:9

INTRODUCTION

What surprises you more, that you are a Christian or that others are not? What is more shocking to you, that some people love sexual promiscuity or that you love sexual purity? What amazes you more; that some people abuse their children or that you do not? What puzzles you more; that 60,000 of the 85,000 people who live in the greater Janesville area are not in church this morning or that you are in church? What seems stranger to you, your co-workers use vulgar and profane language or that you do not? As I listen to our conversation as Christians about the state of the world, I believe that most of us are more surprised others do not believe in Christ and do not live like Christians than that we do. Our expressions of shock and horror at the wickedness and blindness of those who do not know Christ contain in them a not so subtle pride. When you say things like, "Can you believe how that woman screamed at her children in the store?"—you show you are more surprised that she lives like that than you do not. We show that we do not really believe what the Bible clearly teaches. "There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands, no one who seeks God. All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one." When we talk like this we show that we are only paying lip service to what the Bible says, "it is by grace that you have been saved".

One of the chief goals of God in the world is to convince human beings that we, in ourselves, have no desire and no ability to do good. God wants you to know and feel the fact that you, in yourself, hate him and his ways. God’s aim is to persuade us that we cannot do anything to gain or earn salvation. Anytime anyone does what is truly good by God’s definition of good, it is a miracle. Any time that anyone believes in Christ and loves God and people more than themselves it is a work of supernatural power. Anytime anyone resists doing evil because they love God, it is a greater work of God than the work of creating a star.

This is the point of the story we are examining in the book of Genesis. The family of Isaac is as wicked and dysfunctional as a family can be. Moses in recording this story does not pull any punches as he exposes the evil that these people love and the evil ways they live. His point is that we look at these people and see ourselves. But then, he also wants us to marvel at the amazing grace of God. He chooses to love some of these people and to save them from their sins. Every one of these people, Isaac, Rebekah, Esau and Jacob only do evil and deserve nothing but death, destruction and hell. But God, in his great love, gives life and faith and salvation to some of these people because, "it is by grace that you have been saved."

The prophet Malachi, the last book in the OT, uses what God does in these chapters of Genesis to convince God’s people that they ought to be surprised that God loves them. Malachi 1: 2-3 says, "I have loved you," says the Lord. "But you ask, ‘How have you loved us?’ "Was not Esau Jacob’s brother?" the Lord says. "Yet I have loved Jacob, but Esau I have hated…" Was it unfair of God to hate Esau? Absolutely not, Esau hates God. Was it unjust for God to love Jacob? Absolutely, because Jacob clearly does not love God. This is what we saw in last week’s story. What we are going to see today is that when God loves, chooses and blesses wicked people with salvation, it is an entire salvation. He does not leave people in their wickedness but his grace powerfully changes them. This week we are going to see what the apostle Paul says in Ephesians 2:10, "We are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works which God prepared in advance for us to do." In other words, the unfailing evidence that God is saving wicked people like us is that we change from being people who love evil to people who love the good, who truly love God.

MAIN POINT

Grace always produces faith that leads to obedience therefore,

I. Anger and hatred reveal an unconverted heart (v. 41)

Esau is Isaac’s firstborn son. As the firstborn, he ought to have received the rights and privileges, the blessing of the firstborn by his father Isaac. However, according to God’s will and contrary to all human expectation, that blessing was given to Jacob through the evil scheme of Rebekah and Jacob. Esau is overwhelmed with sadness and despair as the reality of what Jacob has done becomes known. He, correctly, accuses Jacob of stealing his birthright and his blessing. He cries out, weeps and pleads with his father to give him a blessing as well. Isaac, in obedience to God’s command, refuses to give him any blessing. We left Esau at the end of the story last week weeping in great sorrow while Isaac, as prophet of God, declares God’s judgement upon him and his descendants for his despising of God and his promises.

As the story opens this week in v. 41, we discover that Esau’s sorrow has turned into a smoldering grudge. He is inflamed with hatred towards Jacob and determines that as soon as his father dies he is going to murder Jacob. He sooths the pain of injustice with fantasies of revenge. How much like Esau we are! When others offend us, we spend our time daydreaming about what we are going to say to "put them in their place." Or we fantasize about how we are going to humiliate them in front of others or do things to harm them. Esau looks forward to the death of the father he supposedly loves in order that he might safely kill his brother. He is after justice. What rightfully belongs to him has been taken and he is going to make sure that the criminal who took it from him is punished. When we remember that God is the one who determined that Jacob receive the blessing we see that Esau’s anger is ultimately directed at God.

Esau is not sad because of what he has done to God but because of what has been done to him. He is not angry because of the ways God has been dishonored but because of how he has been dishonored. His anger and hatred show that he is a spiritual adulterer. He does not love God or his promises. He does not want God or his promises. He loves being treated like the firstborn. He loves the respect, power, and possessions that come with being the firstborn. He is not interested in God.

Thus, it always is with anger and hatred towards other human beings. Esau is a prime example of the truth of 1 John 3:15, "Anyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life in him." He displays the truth of James 1: 1-4, which tells us that when we hate and fight with other humans we are merely showing what we really love and hope in. We prove we are spiritual adulterers. We are really hating and fighting with God. If we were to ask Esau, "Why are you angry and why are you plotting murder?" He would tell us it is because of what Jacob did to him. It’s wrong and unfair for Jacob to steal what rightfully belongs to him. He would not say it is because he does not love God or his ways. But the truth is that is exactly why he hates and plots. He needs what he needs and what he needs is not God.

Our anger and desires for revenge show that we believe we need something or someone more than God. You and I do not have a right to be angry. We are to submit to God and find our joy in knowing and loving him. Every true Christian fights off anger by remembering that they have never been treated the way they deserve. Every true Christian thinks more about the ways they have sinned against God than they do about the ways others have sinned against them. Every true Christian rejoices and delights in God and his promises and so hardly notices when others harm them. Every true Christian is so amazed that God killed Jesus for their sins that they delight to love those who despise them just like Jesus loved them when they were despising him.

Grace always produces faith that leads to obedience, therefore…

  • Anger and hatred reveal an unconverted heart
  • And…

II. Fear always leads away from God (vv. 42-46)

Rebekah finds out that Esau is plotting Jacob’s murder. How does she find this out when we were just told that Esau "said to himself" that he would kill Jacob? We are told in v. 42 that Esau’s plan was "reported" to her. This has got to mean that she has spies in Esau’s household who have overheard him either muttering to himself or telling his plot to a trusted comrade or family member. She is one resourceful lady! She has considered every possibility and has a contingency plan ready. She calls in Jacob and commands him to flee to her brother Laban. She is certain that with Jacob no longer present that the sting of what Jacob did will go away and Esau will give up his plan to murder his brother. She believes this will only take " a few days". After commanding Jacob, she goes to Isaac, in order to get his cooperation in her plan.

What are we to make of Rebekah? John Calvin, in his commentary portrays Rebekah as living by faith for the most part. She is trying to protect the heir of God’s promises and so sends Jacob away. She doesn’t tell the whole truth to Isaac because she wants to spare him the pain of knowing what’s really going on. Besides, she doesn’t really lie, as she truly is upset about Esau’s Hittite wives. I don’t believe that Calvin is right. He ignores a number of indications in the text that Rebekah is not living by faith but rather by fear. She says what her motive is at the end of v. 45. She is afraid of losing Jacob by murder and then Esau by being punished for the murder. She fears bad things happening to her children and so she comes up with a plan that does not deal with the problems in her family but simply avoids them. When I read about Rebekah I’m reminded of what Proverbs 14:1 says, "The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down."

Aside from the fact that her motive is fear and not faith, I think there is four things in the text that show she is not doing the right thing. First, she lies to Jacob about what Esau said. She leaves out the fact that Esau is not planning on killing Jacob until Isaac dies. She lies in order to manipulate Jacob to do what she wants. Second, even though she knows that Esau is ready to wait a long time for revenge she tells Jacob he will only have to stay away for a short time. She either is living in denial or lying again or hoping that Isaac dies quickly. Third, she tells Jacob to flee to Laban in Haran when she knows that Abraham forbade Isaac from going back there. She is sending Jacob to a place that, as far as she knows, God does not want him to go. Fourth, she lies to her blind husband. She is not living in submission to God or to her husband. She does not trust God or her husband. She has this thing figured out, there is only one way to take care of this problem, and it is her way. A final indication that she is not doing the right thing is that this is the last time she shows up in the Bible, except for a brief mention at the end of Genesis as to her being buried in the cave at Macpelah. Her death is not even reported. There is no word of commendation for her in the NT. This is especially striking as Sarah is mentioned a number of times in a positive way.

Rebekah’s fear is the cause of this whole mess in the first place. If she had trusted God to fulfill his promise Esau would have no occasion to be angry with Jacob. Her fear is driving her now to send Jacob to a place that, as far as she knows, God doesn’t want him to go. She is not seeking to reconcile her two sons but is only seeking to avoid conflict. She continues to despise and be at odds with her husband. Her fear causes her to manipulate people and ignore God and his promises. This is what fear does to us. We use people and God to keep what we fear happening, from happening. We don’t care what God wants or what happens to others as long as what we fear does not happen.

Grace conquers fear by teaching our hearts that the only one we should fear is the God who has the power to not only kill us but also send us to hell, as Jesus said in Luke 12. Rebekah doesn’t fear God; she only fears life not going the way she wants it to go. It does not occur to her that God might not be pleased or that he might have a different idea. Grace teaches our hearts to rest in God alone, that he alone is our refuge and fortress. We do not need to fear because God is with us, what can man do to us? What is motivating you, fear of bad things happening or faith in God and his sure promises?

Grace always produces faith that leads to obedience, therefore…

  • Anger and hatred reveal an unconverted heart
  • Fear always leads away from God
  • And…

III. God and his promises occupy the attention of true believers (vv. 1-5)

What Isaac does in vv. 1-5 of chapter 28 is a stunning display of the effects of God’s grace in a person’s life. If you are going to be impressed with what Isaac is doing here, you must remember where he has come from. He has lived for over 40 years with his heart firmly attached to Esau. He loved Esau and the food that Esau provided him. He was opposed to God’s plan to have Esau serve Jacob. He plotted, along with Esau, to rob Jacob of any blessing. He lived for all those years in a state of conflict with his wife over their sons. He was a worldly man, who loved the pleasures of this world rather than the promises of God. But, as we saw last week, at the pinnacle of his rebellion towards God, God opened his eyes to see what he had done. Remember, when Isaac blessed Jacob, he believed he was blessing Esau. At that moment, he was certain that he had thwarted God, Rebekah and Jacob. He was gloating in his successfully defying God. Then, when Esau entered and Isaac realized that the trick was on him, he didn’t get mad or sad, he feared God. He repented of his evil affection for Esau. He affirmed that God’s plan was right and that Jacob was the blessed one. He refused to give in to the pleading of Esau or to join him in hating Jacob.

Now, he publicly and openly confesses that he loves God and God’s plans for Jacob. He is a changed man. He loves what God loves and hates what God hates. He embraces God’s entire plan and is certain it will come to fruition. Notice how direct, forceful, and certain he is in vv. 1-5. He commands Jacob to not marry a Canaanite woman. He tells him to go back to Paddan-Aram in order to find a wife. He tells him to only take a wife from among the daughters of Laban, Rebekah’s brother. No other relatives will do. Then he calls God by the name that God revealed himself to Abraham when he confirmed his promise to Abraham. He calls him God Almighty, the God who is able to accomplish his entire holy will. The God who cannot be thwarted and whose purposes never fail. He repeats the promises that were given to Abraham and then to him by God. He knows that Jacob will become a "community of peoples". He knows that he will possess the land of Canaan. He knows, because God is God Almighty that Jacob will not stay in Haran but will return. Then notice in v. 5 that Jacob immediately obeys God’s command through Isaac.

Isaac is not angry about how shamefully Jacob and Rebekah have treated him. He is not afraid of what will happen to Jacob and to his descendants. He is amazed by God’s grace towards him. He knows that it would be right for God to kill him and send him to hell for his rebellion. So, like a man who is on his way to be executed when he receives word of the presidential pardon, he is full of joy and gladness. He is confident that the God who has pardoned him and who has made promises to him will certainly do all that he has promised. He knows that this Almighty God who overcame his evil plans and saved him is able to overcome everything that sets itself up against Jacob and God’s plans for him. He is living by faith in the promises of God.

I received a letter from a friend of mine who is a missionary in Zambia, Africa. He told me this story about one of the African church planters that work with him by the name of Denny Mushali. Denny returned to the city he was planting a church in, called Shangombo, after a week of meetings in another town. He arrived home at night and the vehicle he was riding in let him out in the market place of his town. His bags were put down by the side of the road. But by the time he made it around the vehicle, someone had stolen his luggage. While this would not be a great loss to those of us who have too many of most things, to Denny, it represented significant depletion of his limited possessions. A few days later, he told a friend about his loss. After describing what he had lost, his friend said, "I think I have your shirt in my closet." They hurried to the friend’s house and sure enough, he had Denny’s shirt. He had bought it at an ad hoc used clothing sale just the day before from a man he did not know. They presumed he was the thief and set out to track him down.

The tracking took a little longer than expected, 12 days to be exact. The trail took them through numerous villages where Denny had never traveled before. As he went, he shared the gospel. Four people professed faith in Christ, three people were set free from demon activity and many villages asked him to return to teach the good news. They did finally catch the thief and return him to Shangombo for trial and then incarceration. However, a new problem surfaced, who would feed this man while he was in prison, as he had no relatives in the area? Yet, food was prepared and delivered day after day to this incarcerated thief, much to the surprise of his fellow inmates. When they inquired as to whom was taking care of him the thief replied, "It is the very man from whom I have stolen. The man and the people from his church are caring for me. He is a man of God and from what I have learned from him I will not steal anymore."

Denny, like Isaac, lived by faith. He did not get angry. He did not fear. Rather he trusted God and obeyed him while living in the circumstances God brought to him. Like Isaac, he provided for the man who sinned against him, thus displaying the greatness of Christ. Difficult circumstances do not intimidate the one who is living by faith in this Almighty God. Sin and suffering are merely opportunities for God to show off his powerful grace by producing obedience in us and shedding his love through us into the lives of others. When Christ saves a person, God’s purposes become his or her purposes. Obedience becomes what she longs to do. The Christian is happiest when he or she loves others out of the joy of knowing Christ.

Grace always produces faith that leads to obedience, therefore…

  • Anger and hatred reveal an unconverted heart
  • Fear always leads away from God
  • God and his promises occupy the attention of true believers
  • And…

IV. Human effort can never achieve salvation (vv. 6-9)

Notice how Esau responds to Isaac’s very public declaration of God’s blessing on Jacob. He makes the mistake that every human being naturally makes in relation to God and his ways. He sees that God blesses Jacob through his father. But notice what he fixes upon. He notes that Isaac commands Jacob to not take a Canaanite wife but to go to Paddan-Aram to get a wife. Then he sees that Jacob obeys. Then he draws a false conclusion. He concludes that the reason God blesses Jacob is because he does not take a Canaanite wife but obeys his father by going to Haran. He concludes the reason Jacob is blessed is because Jacob obeys. This is a very natural way of thinking. The entire human race naturally thinks this way about God and his relationship to humans. What he does not understand is that God is blessing Jacob in spite of Jacob’s disobedience. The result is that Jacob obeys.

It is the testimony of the Scriptures from beginning to end that salvation is entirely a work of God. The blessing of God is poured out on the unbelieving sinner and it creates the fruit of obedience. The Holy Spirit gives life to spiritually dead people whom then delight to trust in Christ and to give up the whole world in order to have him. C.H. Spurgeon, explains this in a sermon based on 2 Corinthians 5:18 which says in part, "…and all things are of God". He says, "If your heart begins to yearn for the Father whom you have angered and wronged and if your feet desire to leave the mountains of sin and vanity and to tread the right road, it is a Father’s hand that draws you, it is a Savior’s voice that sweetly impels you to seek his face…. Do you see the missionary, leaving house and home and all the comforts of his native land, to go and do battle for Christ among a people who will scorn him, mistrust his motives and repay his self-denial with persecution? See him struck down with fever and when barely well he pulls himself out of bed, stands beneath a tree, and preaches the gospel. He continues to labor until worn out; he commits his body to the earth, far from his homeland and his friends and family. Shall we applaud the man? Shall we with clamorous songs sing his praise? He has done valiantly but let us remember that everything in him that was good, was of God. He would have been idle and indifferent and careless to the souls of men had not God made him what he was."

But Esau doesn’t see this as the explanation of Jacob’s obedience and of God’s blessing. He presumes, as all of us naturally presume that the obedience produces the blessing. He realizes that his marriage to his Hittite wives displeases Isaac and therefore God and so he concocts his own solution. He goes to Abraham’s family, to the descendants of Ishmael and marries a woman who is a relative of Abraham and Isaac. Why does he do this? He wants the blessing of Isaac, the blessing of God. But he wants it on his terms. He seeks to merit God’s favor by his own work. But notice what he does not do. He does not repent of his hatred of Jacob and affirm God’s choice of Jacob. Esau is unwilling to cast himself upon the mercy of God in Jacob. Instead, he seeks to show that he does not need Jacob to get God’s blessing. He does not get rid of his Hittite wives. He does not repent of his sins. He believes that this "work" of getting a wife from among Ishmael’s relatives will cover over the offense of having two Hittite wives.

Esau is a prime example of human arrogance. He believes that he will get God’s blessing without turning from his own sin and by refusing to trust the promise of God in Christ. He believes that God’s blessing comes to those who obey. He fails to realize that there is no one who does good and so anytime God blesses a person it is never in response to what they have done but always an expression of his grace. The obedience is the fruit of God’s blessing, never its cause. You cannot eliminate the guilt of your sin and earn the kindness of God by some self-righteous act. God never acts kindly to people because he is obligated to do so by our goodness or obedience. He is always kind to sinners like you and I because he decides to be kind. But then, his kindness always produces obedience in us. Do not make the mistake that Esau made. Do not think that you obligate God to bless you by your obedience. God never responds to us in that manner because we, by our own will, have never done a good and righteous deed. God treats sinners like us with kindness. He is gracious and his grace always produces faith that leads to obedience in us. "For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works which God prepared in advance for us to do." May he receive all the praise and honor for his powerful salvation.

Grace always produces faith that leads to obedience, therefore…

  • Anger and hatred reveal an unconverted heart
  • Fear always leads away from God
  • God and his promises occupy the attention of true believers
  • Human effort can never achieve salvation

 

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